Thursday, August 26, 2010

growing and changing

last night i spent some time with my best friend
we caught up and chatted and laughed and it was just.. comfortable
its something we haven't done in a while
and its something we both needed.
after a bit, with friends,
you begin to ease up a little.
not entirely, just enough that you don't have a grip on things
or not as good as you used to.
even if friendships seem water tight, which they most likely are
you still have to work on it,
work for it..
work at it.
never get too comfortable, never let things slip away
its the little every day things
checking in and simple hellos
hugs and reminders that you are important to one another.
truth is scary and changes are impossible to wrap your head around sometimes
but its worth it.
friends that stick around despite it all?
are worth it.

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